First Date Ideas St. Louis — Real Events Worth a Date
The best first dates come with something to do besides stare at each other. These are real St. Louis events — shows, tastings, concerts — that make conversation easy. Pick one below, grab dinner nearby in the same neighborhood, and let the city do the rest. For restaurant picks, see the STL food guide; for planned itineraries, see date night ideas.
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FAQ
What is a good first date in St. Louis?
Something with a built-in conversation starter: a comedy show, a small-venue concert, or a food event in a walkable neighborhood like The Grove, Cherokee Street or Soulard. The live listings above update daily.
Where do locals go on dates in St. Louis?
The Delmar Loop for shows, The Hill for dinner, Citygarden and Forest Park for daytime walks, and Cherokee Street for tacos and bars — pair a neighborhood with an event from the listings above.
How much should a first date in STL cost?
Plenty of shows and events are free or under $20 — browse the calendar and filter for free events, or see the STL events under $20 roundup.